Understanding Gender differences between the Guys and Dolls

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus: Understanding Gender differences between the Guys and Dolls

May 16, 2012 I was Invited to do an interview with the Sweet People on VoiceAmerica.com to discuss Gender Differences With the Hosts and had a great time sharing my insights in how couples can relate to each other in a more productive way when trying to settle differences. To Listen to our interview click this LINK .

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Seven Ways to Put The Fun Back into Your Relationship

Seven ways to bring fun back into your relationship

 When relationships turn stale or are challenged, retaking that lovin’ feelin’ can mean work, a lot of work  

So, where’s the fun in that?

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What Makes A Loving Relationship?


For several months, a client had been complaining about her husband’s behavior. She felt she could no longer continue in the marriage as it was. She wanted a loving relationship with her husband, but often felt she played the role of his mother rather than his wife. Continue reading

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I Do, I Do, I Do

The Gift Of a LifeTime -The Perfect Wedding Gift

It is that time of year again. Wedding bells are ringing, bridal expos are calling and wedding venues are hopping. Whether it is a destination wedding, a banquet hall or a cozy backyard, the excitement is in the air. One thing for sure is that vows will be said and a new life begun.

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Relationship Goals: Do You Have Them?

Setting goals is something we do every day, especially if we are employed. On a personal level we also set goals for ourselves. Have you ever set a goal to lose weight, score a promotion, win a tennis match, or find the love of your life? Your goal list can be endless and it changes all the time. Continue reading

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The Art of Relationship Maintenance

The art of relationship maintenance

I was talking with a client recently about changes she was making in her marriage. These changes resulted from a better understanding of the needs and wants she and her husband had within their marriage.

She indicated things were improving and she was a lot happier. When I asked why things were getting better, my client replied, “Simple relationship maintenance.” Continue reading

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Communication – Seven Mistakes Couples make and Solutions to Help

Impaired or troubled communication is definitely one of the most common reasons couples end up in a therapist’s office.

 Good communication is like glue. It plays a large part keeping relationships intact and holding strong. On the other hand, poor communication leads to conflict, often acting as a solvent to cause relationships to separate or dissolve. Continue reading

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Can Flexibility Enhance Your Relationship?

All relationships ebb and flow, that’s the nature of sharing life with another person. Relationships will change as partners do, and as life experiences affect the union. Practicing flexibility within your relationship is a good way to keep connected. Continue reading

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Five Things That Can Ruin a Romance

 The definitions of romance are varied and differ according to male and female interpretations. As a couple’s counselor, I often hear this cry from both men and women – “But I don’t know how to be romantic!”

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Do you have a 3-D relationship?

As a nurse and couples counselor, I often view my clients from many perspectives, including medically and emotionally. When someone new makes an appointment for counseling, I use all my senses and experiences to place how they fit in their world. I try to see and hear with an increased depth and volume. Continue reading

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